A Fork In The Road
Jun 3 2008

This is a philosophical post at best and a rambling, forky post at its not-so-best.  Everyone’s life is filled with predictable stuff and non-predictable stuff.  And it seems like the life of an entrepreneur has more unpredictability than most.

Entrepreneurs often have to create a path where none existed before so the chances of seeing beautiful and amazing things as well as the chance of staring at the face of a lioness with her jaws open wide in a snarl about to pounce on you are higher than say going to work at a “predictable” day job. 

Of course predictable day jobs are also subject to stress, crazy bosses, insane co-workers, and layoffs, but it’s not your company that you might just have to see on the wayside as road kill OR on the plus side helping tons of people, purchased by a reputable company, or with a Wall Street ticker symbol. 😉  Either way you end up with some sort of vultures around you.

Sadly, yesterday afternoon there was a car-squashed dead squirrel in the road outside our house.  Our neighbor across the street told me she saw a big vulture hanging out in one of the trees outside of her house.  I told her about the dead squirrel and it immediately made sense to both of us why it was there.  Needless to say, this morning the squirrel was no longer on the road.  Anyway, I digress…

Everyone knows intrinsically that high risk can equal high rewards but we often forget it also can mean high loss and sometimes making odd, creative decisions. 

So what’s an entrepreneur to do?

Well she doesn’t give up easily.  She looks at her situation, looks ahead at the several uncharted roads ahead of her, gets manic stresses about it for a while, and then puts her foot down on one of the paths on the fork in the road ahead and starts walking.  If she’s got control of her thoughts (which I don’t usually) she won’t look back and wonder “what if?”  She’ll move forward and hope the path will eventually rejoin, and perhaps even speed up, the wider, bigger path to achieving her vision.

I have just encountered such a fork in my entrepreneurial road. [As an aside, why do they call it a fork when the utensil we eat with has 4 prongs (sometimes 3) but when we think of a fork in the road it usually is shown with 2?!]  I’m hoping it will lead to bigger and better things for me, my family, and my company.  Time and presence-of-mind (what’s that?!) will tell.

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